Apparently "Batman" thinks I am a "fucking crazy cunt". Wow, I did not think that superheroes used such expletives and was shocked to read that someone with such an immature, albeit fake e-mail address would actually say such things, not even knowing who I am, sheesh. Admittedly, I deleted his comment, banned his IP then started to wonder if I had ever slept with, dated, or stole money from anyone in Bloomsburg, PA (that's right, assjacket.....you had no clue that not only am I crazy but also a net-sleuth). After that, I checked out all of the info on my invisible Site Meter while doing my other IP investigations and saw what search word was used to get to this post, realized it was a random person and then had a whole new thought.....why the hell would someone just call someone else the big "C" word out of the blue? You'll notice that I could care less about the "fucking crazy" part cause uh....duh, but seriously what the crap is wrong with people these days? In one way it is a sad commentary on how people act but in another way it's funny because all it does is make us bloggers laugh and make fun of people like that. In fact, I was e-mailing Kapgar about other things and mentioned it then he said:
"I wish people would leave me comments calling me a 'fucking crazy cunt'. That would make my day. Sniffle."
See, we don't really care as much as we just like to point it out and poke fun at the fact that people are really unintelligent in their insult capabilities. What is truly awesome is that I was actually going to make a post along these lines today anyway, but it had more to do with people going for the "fat bitch" comment rather than the big "C". I happened to watch Phat Girlz this weekend as I needed some fluff while working on the hair-tearing, frustrating code that is now the new look of my blog. Anyway Mo'Nique aside, the message in the movie was really great.....it was about loving yourself no matter what size you are thusly enhancing your chances of having a happier life, taking bigger risks and gaining even bigger rewards. It was cheesy and probably gets all of two stars on my Netflix rating list but it really did get me thinking about people that don't think they deserve a full and happy life because they are overweight and how many of those women feel that way because someone has called them a fat bitch (or some similar expletive) in the past.
My thought is this....calling someone "fat" as an insult is ignorant. Thank you, Captain Obvious....what else have you got? Nothing? Wow! It's not very creative to take the one thing that is apparently a physical flaw that obviously probably hurts someone and point that out as your only means of a "burn". Usually, if people call me a "fat bitch", I usually just look at them and say, "uh yeah, no shit Sherlock....anything else?". Usually they are stumped and walk away because they just don't have much more in them. So the next time anyone gets called a stupid name like that, try to remember the source....the dregs of humanity and scourge of the Earth that have nothing better to do than hurt someone else with paltry insults just so that they can feel better about their rotten insides. THEY are the ones with so much insecurities that they have to lash out and if you want to be better than that, let someone call you a name then walk away and laugh at them as you go. Maybe my not taking much shit is why Batman thinks I am crazy??? And here I thought I had forever wounded and offended Spider Man....who know that I could have two superheroes that hated my ass? Stan Lee is so not letting me on his next reality show for sure ;).
Cat Woman Kisses,
Me
Loved the post! Way to put Batman in his place. I especially like the way you handle those that use "fat bitch". I will remember that and make use of your response in the future! Thanks for the inspiration!
Posted by: Krista | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 03:35 PM
Well, it's offical. You are my hero.
Don't get too excited though. There are no prizes or anything.
Maybe a pedestal, though.
Posted by: Mr. Fabulous | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 04:57 PM
Screw Batman. He's a whiny little bitch.
Posted by: Karl | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 05:02 PM
I can tolerate that kind of stuff if they can give me reasons for their conclusions. They usually can't because they are usually idiots.
Posted by: Dagny | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 05:27 PM
I love your tough girl not taking anything and am glad you are just the way you are.
Posted by: Annie | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 05:34 PM
I guess the joke is on Batman, eh? I missed that nasty comment by the way. Oh, and yes, you're so right...all we do is laugh at their ignorance anyway. Plain ol' stupidity! And to think we couldn't figure out where they were from, or even who they are...they can't hide in the Bat cave forevah! :o)
Love ya girlie,
Aim
Posted by: Aim | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 06:23 PM
As my daughter would say, "what a penis-head." (when she was a kid, we wouldn't allow her to curse ... so she made this one up ... she said it wasn't cursing, it was anatomically correct...kids!)
I'm going to have to learn how to block trolls. Haven't gotten around to it yet.
I haven't had any trolls so far ... but after the penis-head comment, I might have to!
Posted by: javajabber | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 06:33 PM
Wow, that literally made me flinch. If somebody called me those three words it would probably send me crying into the fetal position. Luckily we all know that he learned that term from his mother--since that's what she is. Yes. I went there.
Posted by: Rachel | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 06:47 PM
Krista: Yeah totally not worried about name-callers; actions scare me more than words do.
Fab: If I knew all it took was me getting cussed out to become your hero, we could have skipped the foreplay, seriously ;).
Karl: Thanks - always having my back and stuff.
Dagny: That is why I was actually hoping it was someone I knew...shoot, at least then they may have provocation from my prior, not-so-cool years.
Annie: You know that old saying? Well, I have had so many words thrown at me and survived; in fact, maybe I can take on the sticks and stones too!
Aim: Batman posted to an entry from February so whatever; you did not miss much at all; I'm guessing Batman is in his cave now.
JJ: I used to brag to Foo all of the time that I never got hate mail or hate comments but uh, then I started getting them, so bragging might work out for you ;).
Rach: You ARE a superhero for going there! At first I almost came up out of my chair when I saw that email but then quickly realized that is exactly what those people like anyway.
Posted by: Hilly | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 06:59 PM
Damn, some people have nerve eh? I love the responses you come up with for the nimrods out there. Screw em'. We're fabulous and we know it. Neener neener.
Posted by: Jen | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 07:18 PM
How sad is it when someone has nothing better to do than leave a nasty comment on the blog of someone s/he doesn't even know?
Pathetic. . . . .
Posted by: Sharon | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 07:25 PM
I have never understood why people leave rude comments. It totally baffles me.
If I came upon a post that I disagreed with,I would probably just move on. I don't enjoy sparking a huge heated debate.
I would never call someone a rude name. It just shows lack of imagination and immaturity! Who cares about people like that??
Posted by: Robin P | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 07:36 PM
I had somebody leave me a comment that said I was a whiny little "c-word"... but that's not the odd part. When I reverse look-uped the IP address to see how they found me, the referrer was a Google search for "kiddie porn picture girls".
So, you can see the kind of people who leave these comments. :-)
Posted by: Dave2 | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 07:54 PM
i've been called fat and i've been called a bitch but never together. i like your attitude. i need to rub some of it off on me. i'm way to sensitive. i'm such a pansy.
ha.
Posted by: ms. sizzle | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 07:57 PM
Jen: Exactly, sistah....let people say what they want as long as we know better and so do the ones that truly love us.
Sharon: Right? With so much porn on the net, there has to be something better to do ;0.
Robin: That has been my total M.O. lately....just moving on from things that baffle me; I am not shocked that people disagree with some of the things that I say NOR do I care if they even tell me that they disagree if they do so in a respectful and intelligent matter...hell, I am the poster child for "live and let live". The funny thing is that it was not even a controversial post, LOL.
Dave: You are totally right; this search was not much better so we are talking about the lowest common denomitaor of "humans" here.
Sizz: I used to totally take everything people said about me internally and cry about it and make it eat me up inside.....I don't know where I grew my sack but I am glad that I did. I won't lie and say that things never hurt me, but you have to be someone I care about in order to even engage my emotions, you know?
Posted by: Hilly | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 08:43 PM
I'm pretty sure that was my ex-husband hiding behind the "Batman" handle. That choice little phrase was one of his favorite nicknames for me.
Posted by: SJ | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 09:38 PM
Batman has issues... I feel sorry for him ;) NOT!!!
Posted by: beee | Monday, August 28, 2006 at 11:28 PM
I still don't understand how such a search led the dickwad to my site! I don't HAVE any kiddie porn there! I can only guess it was an archive page and the words were pulled from different entries. I am so totally a pervert and don't even know it! :-)
Posted by: Dave2 | Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 05:02 AM
I won't use the dreaded "C" word, but I will call you "fucking crazy." But it's all in love. You know that.
Hey, when did your header graphic switch to "Making Life..." from "Making Fat..."?
Posted by: kapgar | Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 08:02 AM
SJ - Tell him to grow up ;).
Bee - I know; we always knew he was wayyyy too into Robin.
Dave - I have had the same thing happen just cause I happened to use three words on the same archive page that somehow let to a search for "fat gorillas sucking cooch" and I often wonder wtf?
Kevin - I am crazy so that's cool.
Posted by: Hilly | Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 09:38 AM
Clearly an imposter. Batman would never talk to a girl.
Posted by: Rick | Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 05:09 PM
I'm just sayin' there are those folks out there that will post anything to get a rise out of someone, and will post things to people they don't know, because then they don't have to face the reality of people.
Some people suck.
Posted by: Anneke | Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 05:10 PM
I missed the nasty comment the first time around but as result I got something much, much better with this post.:)
Hey Tuesday is almost over chickie, where's the story of unrequited love you promised?:)
Posted by: Janet | Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 06:32 PM
Question not the wisdom of pooman23@yahoo.com, and the 22 previous poomen before him.
Posted by: Mr. Snackie | Wednesday, August 30, 2006 at 01:41 AM
LMAO! I never get any trolls...WAHHHH!! I want me some trolls, dammit. Even a super troll at that. Batman. Nice.
Ok, seriously, I have been feeling like an invalid lately and I think it's because of the "I'm too fat to go outside" thoughts that surge through my brain every once in awhile. Is it rational? No. I need to freakin stop. Seriously. Because I need a tan.
Posted by: Plunky(Deb) | Wednesday, August 30, 2006 at 02:46 PM